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Girl called my bf her "hubby". Am I wrong to be upset?

  • June 24, 2011 at 4:02 pm

Okay, well my bf and I started dating on valentines day and on may 28, we broke up for various reasons that I prob won't get into in this question (but it wasn't cheating that I know of). but on June 7, HE came crawling back to me and wanted me back, so I gave him the benefit of the doubt and now we are back together.

Were both in high school but he's older and actually just graduated. he lives in the next town up about 20-30 minutes away and I used to see him every weekend, but now it's only 1 a month because of gas and all that =/

Well, the first time we dated, I saw him talking to and comment on other girls photos and it made me extremely mad so I blew up at him, and he said it means absolutely nothing and that he compliments his friends cause he's a nice guy, but that I'm his gf and I have to stop thinking he "doesn't care" and that he said he never cheated on me and was never going to so I need to trust him. but later we broke up.

Well I went to his wall last night on fb and one of his friends (I know they're pretty good friends), wrote on his wall something like this "-inside joke- hubby I love you!! =)" like she wasn't calling him her hubby in general, she was refering to him as her hubby within the inside joke. do you get it? Lol.

Then he commented and was like "haha with me gone will u still keep the school knowing about -inside joke-?" and then she said "yea hubby I will <3 text me" well then I went to her page cause I'd feel better if she had a bf!! but her relationship status wasn't listed so I creeped more and there was a pic of her and her bf and under her bio it said she was taken. but I have no way of knowing if that's current or not.

I know this girl and my bf are close friends, but what should I do here? PLEASE HELP. I also am upset because I would call my bf my hubby, and he would call me wifey a lot. So it just makes me upset to see this random girl calling him hubby when he's MINE….

Hey, I'm writing this from a caring point of view…. please don't stress about this guy. You have a few trust issues bubbling around under the surface so perhaps the first thing you need to do is ask yourself what your boyfriend would need to do to make you trust him? If you don't know then realise that you are always going to have a lot of issues either with him, or with any other boyfriend. You didn't go into the reasons why you split up before and perhaps there are reasons why your trust has been shattered a little. all I'd say is don't give yourself a hard time over this… it is harsh when you see things like that written about someone you love but remember that loving him and owning him are to very different things. If you look at your own page as an objective bystander are there things there that would give your bf cause for concern? Possibly so. I hope it all works out for you – if it's meant to be then it will.

I get like that too lol… just try to let it go.

u guys are over so either admit ur feelings to him and dont break up with him so easily or let go of him! oviously if he is this chummy with a gurl thts not u thn he may be over u….. sorry love! loves a wonder! just enjoy the rollarcoaster

Girl called my bf her "hubby". Am I wrong to be upset?

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